Anyone who claims to be ‘lost’ and ‘confused’ will know what I’m talking about.
It is in fact, one of the main problems that these people face.
To explain this in the most simple terms…
You’ll see that there is a haze about your future that doesn’t seem to end.
In other words, it’s a general uncertainty about the future. You have no clue what’s going to happen next and it scares the hell out of you.
If you ever dwell on it, it’s going to leave you messed up real bad.
I certainly got messed up because of this. I experienced a very long bout of anxiety and stress when I first came out of college.
Everything that used to be crystal clear had just disappeared. My life had turned into a long road with haze in every direction.
This was especially shocking to me as I had never encountered it before nor did I know about it’s existence.
I’ve spent enough time trying to find out how to get rid of the haze. And what I’ve realized is that the haze will stay until we die.
There is no use trying to get rid of it. It’s better to just ignore it.
In other words, just consider it as normal and go about with your daily activities. There is no way of knowing the future so it’s better to just focus on the present.
Don’t get disheartened though. Because there is a way to COPE with it.
The truth is that the haze only bothers you when there is nothing else for you to focus on.
If you set goals in life and keep yourself preoccupied, the haze will bother you less. The haze will still exist but it’s psychological effect will greatly diminish.
In all, if you are wading through this haze trying to find clear ground, JUST FORGET IT! Your entire life is filled with haze just like everyone else’s.
Just ignore it and keep yourself preoccupied with your goals…
You will do fine.